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Here's some of the letters we recived from issue one.
My Boyfriend has been sleeping with my Best Friend
On a typical student drunken night out during freshers week, my best
friend introduced me to a really nice guy; we really hit it off, I went
back to his flat… and I’ll say no more about that matter.
However we swapped numbers and he said he would call. I didn’t
hold my breath but two days later he called me and asked me out and
we were dating for 3 years. Three years into our relationship I discovered
he had been sleeping with my best friend for over two years. (Yes the
friend that introduced us to each other)! You can imagine how devastated
I felt. We had all been at university together, in the same boring lectures,
staying in the same halls, we would walk home together and sometimes
they would walk home alone together, which in my eyes was completely
normal as we were all friends.
After getting over the shock, I later found out that I was the only one who didn’t know; practically the whole class knew and everyone we went on nights out with. They apparently didn’t make it a secret. I cannot understand why so many people would betray me and why no-one thought it would be a decent idea to tell me. I feel like I can trust no-one and doubt if I can carry on my studies with a group of people I thought were my friends.
I have Clamidia.
Just when I thought my boyfriend (19) and I (20) were getting on so well, he announces to me he has had sexual intercourse with 30 different women and thinks we should both be checked for STDs. Disgusted at the thought, I agree for my own sake. I arrange an appointment at the hospital and call the relationship off with my boyfriend as it changed things between us. Two weeks later I get the letter back from the hospital diagnosed with clamidia. It made me feel so dirty and I have only had two sexual partners including my boyfriend at the time. I couldn’t tell any of my friends as I was frightened of what they would think about me. I had to go through the experience alone. Since then I have had no sexual partners as it has traumatised me. The figures on the disease are outstanding; 1 in 3 people catch clamidia. This article is my secret way of warning others and emphasising the important of SAFE SEX. I thought I knew my boyfriend and trusted him, turns out I was wrong.
My boyfriend has been sleeping with my mother
My boyfriend and I had been dating for over a year when he started
to act very strange. I had been going through a really hard time at
home, my mum and dad were always arguing and were on the verge of separating.
I thought it was because I was so wrapped up in my own problems I wasn’t
giving him enough attention so I decided to surprise him and cook him
dinner in his flat and arranged for us to be alone all night together.
I arrived at his flat to my disgust to find my mother and him in bed
together. It was not me wrapped up in problems after all that was causing
the changes in our relationship, it was him wrapped up in my mother.
Are fat girls are better in bed than skinny girls???
Steve (20)
My friends are often commenting on the taste I have in women, or should I say the shape I go for. It is without a doubt that fatter girls are better in bed than skinny girls. They try harder and take more control. My experience with fat girls has been amazing and what can I say ‘finished embarrassingly quickly’. Yes skinny girls might be good to look at but they are rubbish in bed!!!
Nick (26)
Steve doesn’t know what he is talking about, how can he? He is
only 20. Give me a fit bird any day. If he has had a bad experience
with a slim women then its because he is lacking technique in that department
and needs his lover to take control. Fat girls just look like they are
trying harder because they have less stamina. There are more exciting
positions that can be done with a petite women if she is lighter and
more flexible. That ain’t possible with heavy girls.
My personal tutor saved me from taking away my life!
Everything was getting on top of me. I lost my boyfriend, my job and my flat in the same month. After starting university, I was just beginning to enjoy life; I had friends, a life, a job, a boyfriend, a flat, everything I wanted. I had gone through my childhood and teenage years with no love from my parents and being bullied from my peers. University was a chance to leave that all behind until my boyfriend who was also my friend and my boss dumped me. This resulted in me loosing my friends because they were also friends with him, and also my job because he made my life at work so intolerable. I then could not make the rent payments. This worry caused me to fail my exams.
I was at breaking point and felt I had nothing or no-one to live for.
My personal tutor emailed me to discuss re-sitting my exams. I went
along to a meeting with him with the intention of withdrawing from my
course. He convinced me to stay on and resit my exams. He advised me
to apply for a hardship fund from the university to pay my rent and
bills and also offered me a job within the university. I cannot thank
him enough as if it were not for him, I would not have what I have now.
I did not even have the will to live before I spoke with him.
